I have
decided that I will start or end posts with a quote or poem, it might be
relevant, or maybe just something I heard and really liked.
“You will
never be completely at home again, because part of your hear will always be
elsewhere, this is the price you pay for the richness of loving and knowing
people in more than one place.”
Living In
Guatemala
I am not
entirely sure the moment I stopped living in Guatemala and started just living;
living without clarification of a place, because the place stopped becoming
anything out of the ordinary and simply became the everyday life. I like it. I
like that after almost a year I am accustomed to things here. I have started to
do the weird Guatemalan hand flick. I have stopped really missing showers, and
given in to the saunas. I also crave Guatemalan food now. The other day I was
in Antigua and all I wanted were some frijoles and fried plantains, which is
insane. I hated frijoles before coming here, and I had never tried a plantain
in my life. Now they are so common place that I only notice them in their
absence.
There are a
ton of people going home to visit the states in the upcoming weeks and months.
I am a little happy to not be among them. The idea of the immensity of the US,
the fast paced life, people not greeting every single person you encounter on
the street, it abruptly all seems so foreign, and in truth, a little
intimidating. But seriously, walking down the street here you at the very least
greet everyone, and it’s commonplace to stop and chat a bit, generally in the
middle of the road. I am not certain the appeal of the middle of the road, but
it seems a communal greeting spot.
The last
few weeks I have been out of site so much, between training, med visits, all
the random PC upkeep, it became very overwhelming and on the shuttle back I
mentioned not being able to wait to go home. The response was about the states
and when I was going to go visit. I just assumed this was friendly conversation
until I realized that the person I was talking to thought that when I said
“home” I meant the states. It did not occur to me that this would have been a
communication error, but it made sense. However, what I meant was to come back
to my goofy host siblings, my crazy Pond, and maybe most importantly my bed
with my 15 million super comfy pillows. I like these people and these things,
this life that I have started to build, though a temporary one has become the
familiar and comfortable. At the end of the day, no matter how much my host
family can drive me up a wall with incessant questions, window taps, door
knocks, calling ten thousand times until I answer, etc. etc. My happiness is inextricably linked with
their presence, their adorable giggles, their billions of questions, and that
they call me amiga, hermana, y, meimbro
de le familia. For that I am truly blessed and thankful to be a part of this
beautiful experience.
Over the
weekend I was invited to an amazing theater presentation. I was truly unaware
that these things existed, but decided to give it a go. Going into the building
I realized I had no idea what the show was about, or if I would understand,
sometimes if people talk too fast I still get tripped up a bit.
As the show
started two girls appeared, one in traje tipico, the other in clothes typically
worn by Ladinos.* Based off of where I live I knew this to be a somewhat
strange relationship as there tends to be a fair bit of animosity and
discrimination between these two groups. The ladinos generally claiming to be
higher brow than their indigenous brethren. The indigenous people that I have
spoken to seem to be far less concerned with the Ladino people. My host mom and
I have spoken at great lengths about this, with her answer always being “people
are just people, we are all the same.” Such a beautiful idealist, that one. I
am not entirely sure her train of thought coincides with most though. I have
heard several indigenous people call ladinos thieves for stealing land etc. A
few days after watching the show I was able to watch a history presentation on Guatemala
from the 1400s-1980. It was SOOOO interesting, I really miss learning about the
history of things like this. But possibly what I found to be most interesting
was that the government is who created the divide between indigenous people and
everyone else. And that was the divide indigenous and everyone else, then it
was later divided into indigenous, those with Spanish blood, and then ladinos.
This in itself is not terribly interesting but the fact that ladinos, the
dominant group, or who is not seen as such (due to affluence, education etc) was
defined not by what they are, but rather what they are not. This is amazing
because in GS 101 we learn that minority groups are often times not scene as
complete individuals having their own identities separate from those of the
majority, but rather always seen through the lens of “not” not white, not
straight, not able bodied. However in this case a characteristic of a minority
group, one of the biggest defining features, or ways of defining has been
imposed on a group that somehow occupies a minority and majority sphere. Wow. Culture is amazing, social classes, race,
ethnicity, ugh, everything that makes up a society, is so incredibly mind
blowing.
I also
learned that the Spaniards brought the caste system with them to Guatemala when
they first began to conquer (slaughter) them. Random facts <3
*A little
background, there are four group of people in Guatemala, indigenous, garifunos,
ladinos, y xinca. Indigenous women are generally easily identifiable based off
of what they are wearing. Many women still wear traje tipico. There will be a
post dedicated to this later. The main point is that the clothing is a big
identifier and there are often times repercussions for this.
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